Thursday, July 31, 2008

a real small word which describes real big trouble..

I once read this poem in Young Times long ago called "Ego"
Its was about how a guy was going and the girl didnt stop him even though she wanted to, with all her heart.. the last two lines were

"Because the fear of rejection was
more than
the fear of losing you.."

You see?

Two people who love each other very much, argue, but none of them back down.
Two people who love each other very much, truly want to patch up after a fight but none of them want to be the first to break the ice OR the one to compromise and accept their fault..

Ego sours love. But, sometimes its a little necessary..

"The best thing about Egotists is that thye only think about themselves"
They are not like weird memon aunties at weddings who whisper and point at young innocent (ok maybe not THAT innocent) girls and make up far-fetched stories about why this girl is always frowning or how this other pretty girl is always stuck to the male species (WHICH, BTW ARE ALL HER COUSINS, DAMNIT!)

What really amazes me is how blissfully unaware they are of their own sons' weaknesses and ugliness. They'll notice how a poor girls feet were a lil dirty (YES, FEET! they even stare at those) at a wedding and so she cannot possibly be a good housewife (YES. its a weird theory whihc i'll explain later) BUt will not realize that their sons are crotch-scratchers/armpit scratchers/nose-pickers.. (that too, in public)

They'll notice barely-there strecth marks on a girl's arm (hence no rishta.. cuz she's obviously JUST lost weight and so must have atendency to get fat.. and their chand sa bacha wont like that at all , now would he?) BUT will not notice a big wart on their son's nose.. or if they notice they dont think it counts as ugliness

Now, i do not have anythign against warts or spots or marks or whatever but if they are so concerned about a girl's appearance thne they should look at the boys the same way!

the dirty feet theory:

Okay so... many people believe in this. I personally hate hate hate dirty feet but in NO way judge people because they happen to ahev stepped into a lil mud or something!

so yea. If a girl doesnt care about her feet, her soles, basically and dosnt keep them clean then it means that she is in no way competent anough to keep her house/room clean. So clean, moisturized soles mean that a girl is probably finicky about cleanlines.

Theory proved wrong when Aesha was born
clean feet, yes.
finicky about it? Yes.
room clean.. um noo =/
Finicky about keeping house/room clean? no.

there you go
In your face, AUNTIE!